In Memory of Enrico Kosmus
Although we Buddhists claim to have truly performed our foundational practices, there are times when this foundation shows deep cracks. Today, I learned of the passing of a dear close Lama brother, Enrico Kosmus due to COVID. My first reaction to this was not, “here we are again, impermanence” but instead a brisk denial. “No!”
To think that just because we Lamas we can avoid the most fundamental basis of cyclic existence is simply hubris. The fact is that Enrico represents all sincere western practitioners. But first a word about Enrico as I knew him. What struck me most about Enrico was that in spite of his truly formidable capabilities which we were all inspired by was the fact that he remained utterly humble and sincere despite these qualities.
Enrico dedicated his life to the study and practice of Dharma and to benefiting others freely with his prolific work without holding anything back. In this way, his life was a very profound example of how Dharma was finally reaching the world of western people.
Whatever fancy Buddhist words we can use to console and placate ourselves at this time are useless. Sometimes loss is simply loss. What is not useless is the fact that his life was made completely precious by his own actions. And as such, we westerners would all do well to have even a fraction of his dedication to the practice and actualization of Dharma.
I am also deeply happy to hear that he is surrounded by a close caring Sangha who will be performing the necessary pujas on his behalf as should we all. I’m certain by seeing the title of his last blog on the topic of impermanence, that he would wish us to reflect on this more deeply and use this occurance to direct ourselves to a deeper, more sincere practice while we are still alive.
Enrico will live on in all the texts he translated and distributed freely to many of us. Each time we read or recite those, we can remember his kindness and dedicate the merit for the benefit of all so that it reaches its mark each time.
As for Enrico himself, it is difficult for me to even image that he has gone anywhere other than directly to Dewachen or The Copper Colored Mountain of Guru Rinpoche. I can only pray that we will all be as sincere, humble and disciplined as he was.
My personal condolences go out to his Consort / Wife, and his Son. I hope these words offer some solace to those living who feel this loss so deeply.
With Sober regards to all,
Lama Rangbar Nyima Ozer